I have been very excited to write about this topic, adjusting to French culture – local culture ! It’s such a rich and vibrant life. After having spent some time here, I will share my perspective. Also, I will touch upon what it’s like to navigate here with a dog(s), where they are allowed and overall attitude towards dogs.
Joie De Vivre
Having spent almost two months in France I’ve had the privilege of experiencing French culture firsthand. Joie de vivre – “Joy of Life” is far more than just a phrase, it’s a way of life. It’s evident in everyday moments, for example savoring a freshly baked croissant or enjoying a leisurely long meal with family or friends.
One of the first things I noticed were all of the outdoor cafe’s whether you are in a big city like Paris or a small town there are always an abundance of cafe’s throughout the city. The cafes are usually busy from morning to night. Even in colder climates one is able to wrap themselves up with the blankets provided on each chair. French culture embodies a mindset of leisure, connection and savoring the moment. It’s not about just grabbing a cup of coffee, it’s about taking the time to pause and enjoy the simple pleasures of life.
Here is one of my favorite cafes!
Whether you are sitting alone, or sitting with a group of friends, one is able to stay as long as they like. There is not a rush to free the table for another, one is able to linger and enjoy. I have seen people have dinner, bring out a game, play the game and then have dessert. Women on their own feel perfectly at ease sitting at a café or in a restaurant. Interestingly enough, I have noticed that it is rare to see people using their phones either in the restaurants or in the cafes. It’s refreshing to see that face to face communication takes precedence over interacting with cell phones.
Dog-Friendly Places
Dogs are widely accepted in French culture, it is a very dog friendly culture. Most establishments allow dogs as long as they are well behaved. It is possible to take dogs to cafe’s, restaurants and most of the shops. They are not allowed in the supermarket due to hygiene regulations.
French culture is truly about being present, taking pleasure in life’s small intentional details. Whether it is strolling through the Saturday morning market, enjoying a street art exhibit or enjoying a delicious meal. I am finding that the rhythm of life here is encouraging me to slow down and soak up the moments. It’s been quite a shift for me from having a lifetime of working and it was not uncommon practice to eat on the go if at all.
Navigating in France without speaking can be an adventure. I have a good understanding of the language and unfortunately my verbal communication needs a lot of work. Many people in tourist areas speak English. I find once they hear my accent they often will change over to French. Also, using a translation app has helped me out more than once when asking for something.
Adjusting To French Culture – Local Culture
Learning some key phrases goes a long way, “Bonjour” (hello), “Merci” (thank you), “Parlez vous Anglais?” I believe it is very much appreciated and goes a long way. A common French social courtesy exists, for example when entering a business establishment the employees always greet everyone with “Bonjour!” and a “Bonjour” reply from the customer is always in order as well. Most menus and signs often include pictures or have recognizable words. In more touristy areas the menus will often have the English translation as well.
If I had to sum up the overall philosophy of French culture and general attitude toward life it would be; it is the celebration of mindfulness and the art of simply being.
Thanks for being here,
-Soraya
Interested in reading more about my move to France? France here we come!